During the six days in Japan, the accompanying tour guide and translator was a Beijinger who went to Japan in the 1980s to "work hard". At 46\7 years old, he married a Japanese wife. These six days, from Daegu to Kyoto, from Kyoto to Nagasaki; from Nagasaki to Fukuoka, and then to Zuo Shibao, the boat and car did not stop. Pommel horse does not rest. Contact the hotel for dining and accommodation, accompany the attractions to visit\shop shopping, etc. are all his own. While feeling his work efficiency, he can't help but also generate a heart of compassion for his hard work. Because it is Chinese, in his rare leisure, I talked to him a few times. When he talked about his work in Japan, he always showed a helpless look, and the sentimental words made me understand that a man who worked so hard to him in Japan was almost a whole, a "man's Japan"; The purpose of such work is not only for "money", "life", but for face, for the face of men. Because in Japan, once a woman is married, she no longer works, but she presides over the whole family. Man, must fight all day long. If a man does not go out or is early Go home, the wife at home greet you is a disdainful look. In her view, you go home so early, either by the boss fired, or the relationship with the leadership colleagues is not good. So now Japanese men often go home late at night; even if the work is smooth and full of ambition, After work, I always invite you to the hotel to drink, drink this one, and then go back to the house until late at night. In this way, after entering the house, I won the wife's sweet smile, the pulse of the affectionate eyes, and the words of cold and warm; winning the wife's eyebrows, the bath soup was full, Folding the wide clothes. It is for this face, our translator and other Japanese men have worked hard; it is also for this face, some Japanese men who have not been successful in their careers have to choose "over", and Japan's suicide rate is the highest in the world. Most of them are men who can't stand the pressure of "face". Some are students of both sexes who are not successful in school. In some Chinese people, Japanese men do have a "demeanor" and are "husbands"; because they do not do housework. However, their assumptions are too simple and sloppy! As a matter of fact, Japanese men who do not do housework have to bear housework The weight of traditional customs demonstrated by the wife of the Japanese matriarchal power. This is the bitterness of Japanese men! In Japanese cities, most of the passers-by you see during the day are women, or young women pushing strollers with children; Or the middle-aged women who walked from this hypermarket to that small store with their bags. Even if a few men flashed before your eyes, they were in a hurry and lost their figure. So goodbye to the bitterness of Japanese men. In Japan, there is one thing that makes me feel quite deep. Whether it is a metropolis, It is a small town, we call the toilet or the toilet in the bathroom, the sign is either called the "dressing room" or the "jade hand wash". At first, several of our Chinese men stopped, although the translation confirmed, we still dare not move forward. Because that literally means Think, clearly tell you, that is the patent of the ladies. Japan borrowed a lot of Chinese characters as a proprietary noun from China, but forgot to borrow the noun for men? Otherwise. This is the influence of long-term matrilineal power in Japan, is Japanese men still low in the family and even in society. reflection below. Otherwise, very